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Why Chinese People Don’t Get Along With Other Chinese People

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One of my favorite jokes is that Chinese people are the only people Chinese people are racist against. And before anybody gets upset, relax. I’m Chinese,  I was born Chinese, I grew up Chinese, my parents are Chinese, my relatives are Chinese. I’ve spent over forty years dealing with Chinese people; I think I’ve earned the right to bitch :) The funny thing is that whenever I make this joke, every Chinese person within hearing distance immediately starts nodding and chuckling. Not cautiously, not politely—just full recognition, like I’ve just said something everybody already agreed on but nobody wanted to say out loud. Now I’m not saying Chinese people are uniquely terrible. Every culture has its own internal chaos. But there is something uniquely funny about how a Chinese person can walk into a room full of Chinese people and immediately find twenty-seven reasons to dislike the other Chinese people in that same room. In the video attached to this post, I go into the ...

Work Place EQ- How to Avoid Social Landmines at the work place.

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There’s a strange moment that happens to a lot of people at work. You can be smart, disciplined, talented, reliable, driven… maybe even the strongest performer in the room. You hit deadlines. You solve problems. You carry entire projects on your back. And then one day, something changes. Your boss suddenly becomes colder. You stop getting invited into important conversations. Promotions stall. Opportunities dry up. People act weird around you, and nobody explains why. The worst part is that many times, it has absolutely nothing to do with your actual work performance. In this video, I talk about the hidden rules of workplace survival—the social dynamics, ego management, hierarchy, and unspoken expectations that quietly determine who succeeds and who gets pushed aside. These rules exist everywhere: in offices, schools, martial arts gyms, military environments, social circles, and especially in traditional Asian work culture where respect, status, and “face” matter enormously. I grew up ...

The Feng Shui War That Shook Hong Kong’s Skyline

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There are power struggles… and then there are power struggles written into the skyline itself. Back in the booming 1980s and 90s, Hong Kong wasn’t just a battlefield of banking empires—it became the stage for one of the most dramatic, high-stakes “feng shui wars” in modern history. A clash so grand, so theatrical, so unapologetically Hong Kong that even decades later people still whisper about it like a legend. And honestly? Whether every detail is fact or folklore doesn’t even matter. Because the one thing we can see, with our own eyes, is this: Billion-dollar corporations took feng shui seriously enough to reshape an entire skyline. Image: Two futuristic skyscrapers beside the water. A giant wave crashes in the foreground as lightning bolts strike the taller tower, creating a dramatic, stormy cityscape scene. [ ] The Opening Salvo — HSBC Strikes First Image: Modern glass skyscraper with a distinctive spiral walkway or structure wrapping around it from the...